tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-68703021353514514022023-10-30T21:16:58.958+08:00国兴的blog。。随着稻香,河流继续奔跑~henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.comBlogger346125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-15614132284300277142020-03-20T11:21:00.000+08:002020-03-20T11:21:16.595+08:00【阅读笔记】 #1 像哲学家一样生活:思多葛哲学的生活艺术 - 威廉.B.欧文<br />
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<i><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">而是</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; white-space: pre-wrap;">当我临近死亡时,却发现自己从未活过</span></i></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap; white-space: pre;">想象股市会有崩盘的一天,让我们知道应该投资于可靠的公司,并且要有股息来确保能得到实质的回报。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap; white-space: pre;"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.6667px; white-space: pre-wrap;"><i>没有意义的事,不值得做。</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><i>我们的价值观是我们可以完全控制的。</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap; white-space: pre;">生活中对自己不想要的结果感到伤心、愤怒、妒忌和无助的时候,要问一问自己:什么是我无法影响的?什么是我可以间接影响和直接影响的?</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap; white-space: pre;">把自己的份内工作完成,自己出门戴口罩勤消毒、提早出门,这些是我力所能及的事。</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><i>改变内在想法,易于改变外在环境。</i></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><i>—爱比克泰德</i></span></div>
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-2265418258820920912019-10-01T09:53:00.001+08:002019-10-01T09:53:54.868+08:00优秀到不能被忽视 So Good They Can't Ignore You<br />
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1. 在工作领域,“跟随你的热情”是一个糟糕的建议。那些声称自己跟随热情而在事业上获得成功的人——如乔布斯,往往是在自己的领域取得巨大成就之后才这么说的。乔布斯早期的热情包括到印度进行禅修,但以失败告终。<br />
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2. 而所谓的巨大成就,往往是在投注时间精通了工作后带来的。换句话说,热情是精通的副产品。<br />
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3. 没人欠你一份好工作。<br />
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4. 正确的职场建议应该是——抛弃激情思维,采用工匠思维。<br />
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5. 在自己的工作里头累积职场资本——在职场上稀缺且宝贵的技能。让你自己不断地进步、不断地变成更优秀。直到有一天,你会优秀得无法被忽视。<br />
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6. 在工作里得到满足的关键是拥有自主力。当你累积足够的职场资本时,就可以用此换取拥有足够自主力的工作。<br />
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7. 你必须让自己优秀,然后才能盼到好工作。<br />
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8. 得到你想要的东西,最好的方法是让你自己配得上它。<br />
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<br />henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-49874600622386342592019-08-02T20:18:00.000+08:002019-08-02T20:18:07.402+08:00假装自信没有,应该怎么办?<br />
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你身边是否有一些人,实力明明不怎么样,可是举手投足之间,总是散发出无比的自信?<br />
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可是,这个世界奖励<b>外向</b>和有<b>自信</b>的人。<br />
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今天要讨论的,是如何让自己更有自信。<br />
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传统的成功学告诉我们:Fake it until you make it.<br />
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假装自己很有自信,直到自己真的成为自信的人。但,真的行得通吗?<br />
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Yes, and no.<br />
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Yes,在某些领域和某段时间里,这是行得通的。上台演讲之前,抬头挺胸展示出充满自信的样子,看起来就是自信爆棚的样子。<br />
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No.样子可以装得很自信,但实力是不能长期假装出来的。老板要你准备的文件,你一脸自信地交给他,信心慢慢地解说内容。但你准备的文件如果还是烂,你就是烂。自信的你配上烂实力,会显得特别烂。<br />
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所以心理学相对新的理论告诉我们:不要假装自己,要用自我关怀。<br />
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在没有信心,充满负能量的时候,把自己当成是一个要好的朋友,从一个陌生和熟悉的中间点,一个第三者的视角,客观地给予自己建议,给予自己关怀。<br />
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你的好友要出席一个重要的面试,你会怎么鼓励他?<br />
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你的好友感情出现裂缝,你会怎么安慰她?<br />
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你的好友,把一件重要的事搞砸了,你会怎么劝勉他?<br />
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你的好友一事无成、感觉人生灰蒙蒙的,你给予他什么建议?<br />
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用这个角度和力度给予信心和鼓励,剂量其实恰好适中。对于好友,你不会给予不切实际的鼓励,也不会胡乱灌他鸡汤。你给予的是适当的鼓励、适时的放手、和温暖的陪伴。<br />
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下次需要感觉自信时,试试看从好友的角度,给“自己”这个好友恰当好处的关怀。<br />
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<br />henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-76558280457289122302019-03-26T21:58:00.000+08:002019-03-26T22:02:24.735+08:00优雅地告别<br />
好久没有回来这里,但有些事情,过了很久也不会改变。<br />
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Blogger写文章的界面,竟然没有太大的改变,在瞬息万变的网络世界里不算是个好事。但对于我们这种上了点年纪,还是最熟悉旧城市的人,总算是个好消息。<br />
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好消息,坏消息,其实和你的身份,你的岁数,你的胸襟,都有关系。<br />
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刚才傍晚,煎了两个蛋,像平常一样为晚餐加料。几个小时后,才惊觉煤气竟然一直维持在最小火,自己竟然忘了把火灭了。<br />
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一直微微闻到煮东西的微焦味,还以为是邻居煮食传来的味道,怎么,自己竟然没有想到厨房去检查一下?<br />
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只记得,在吃晚餐的时候,外面下起狂烈的大雨,雨势足以把面向阳台的落地玻璃洗涤得干净。<br />
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一阵闪电,那震耳欲聋的雷声足足把自己吓得从椅子上微微地跳了起来,心却重重地被抛了起来,又急速落回原位。<br />
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自己有多久,不曾被雷声吓着了?或许是太专注吃饭了,也或许,是对傍晚的大雨习以为常了。<br />
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但雨一阵子后就渐渐消散了,像雾气一般轻轻地离开了。<br />
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有些事情,就像暴雨一般,这么突然地,就降临了。<br />
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毫无预警地,就结束了。<br />
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我们都在这世界上走一回,留下些许足迹,或短暂,或长久。但站在宇宙的视角而言,再长久,也都只是惊鸿一瞥。你再努力,也都留不住什么,也留不下什么。<br />
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落下的叶,终究会化为春泥。完全不留下任何痕迹,却在每一处都有它的气味。<br />
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<br />henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-57494060618915391152018-03-23T12:21:00.000+08:002018-03-23T12:21:03.869+08:00电子阅读有感<br />
托在新加坡工作朋友的福,用合理的价格买了一台基本款的Kindle电子阅读器;通过一名辩论队学弟的介绍,开始了在“微信阅读”APP中愉悦的阅读体验。<br />
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虽然还喜欢纸本书握在手中,一页又一页翻阅的美好体验,但同时也爱上了电子阅读的阅读体验。<br />
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出外时Kindle在手,电力续航长达几个星期的优势,加上和手机一样轻巧的质量,让自己可以随时专注在阅读过程中。<br />
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空闲时间一打开“微信阅读”APP,网络的便利下,可以随时购买并下载电子书,利用许多的空档碎片时间阅读,重复阅读,温故知新。<br />
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在自动巡航、日复一日的机械式生活中,自己重试了阅读的乐趣,找到了不断学习的喜悦。<br />
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也祝你,重新找回阅读的乐趣。<br />
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<br />henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-58569386762403760722017-10-08T22:18:00.002+08:002017-10-08T22:18:50.654+08:00五年之后<br />
记得刚毕业的时候听说,一些公司在面试新人时,喜欢问这么一个问题:<b>五年之后的你,会在哪里?(Where do you see yourself in 5 years?)</b><br />
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自己工作,也已经五年了。<br />
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除了在面子书上选择性地分享一些开心的图片之外,经过五年之后的我,现在处于哪里呢?<br />
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这是一个尴尬的问题,也只有一些不体面的答案。抱持着网络上报喜不报忧的惯例,还是算了吧。<br />
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知我者,自然知道。不知我者,只在于我隐藏得好。<br />
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换个问题吧,来点正面积极的文字。五年之后,我学会了什么呢?<br />
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<b>1. 金钱无法换来快乐,至少我不太懂得换,或者我拥有的金钱还不够多。</b><br />
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五年之前,毕业之际,身上和银行里钱其实挺冷清清的,当时兼职教补习得到的收入也现在看起来也着实微薄。车子也没有,年轻得有点不知所谓。记得有一次应酬一位进行调查的年轻人,要当时稚嫩的自己评估对生活的满意度,自己认真的思考了一秒钟,秒答:10分里就8分吧!<br />
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确实,当时的自己心情长期爽朗,没有什么牵挂,也没有太多的忧虑,也简朴简单的生活完全没什么不满。<br />
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当当当!<br />
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五年过去了,现在的自己呢?嗯,你懂的。只差交辞职信,浪迹天涯或者做些不该做的事。<br />
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<b>2. 有些事情,无法回去;有些事情,没有遗憾。</b><br />
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做错的选择,没得回头。就算自己打从心里想要告诉当初的自己,大声地嘶吼要当初的自己改变那令人如此后悔的选择,也改变不了什么。五年的时间已经过去,自己也不再是当年的那个自己了。假装潇洒地一笑而过就好,这毕竟是你他妈的所谓的人生历练啊。<br />
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勇敢地做的事,没有遗憾。<br />
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就算有些“得到”,最终仍旧得心痛的“失去”,但仍然是值得的。一辈子,不就是如此吗?父母、朋友、爱人、职业、车子,一切的一切,没有任何的人或事物可以拥有一辈子。就连你自己的生命,你平平凡凡或轰轰烈烈的一辈子,都有一天终归黄土。<br />
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但是去体验过,好好地品尝过那深入骨髓里的滋味,终究值得。<br />
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不枉你在人世间走一回。<br />
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<b>3. 认真为长期思考过就好,要品味当下</b><br />
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自认是一个悲观主义者,所以很多事情都做好最坏的打算。就连买辆车子,都预算好了买辆烂车子,就算今晚被偷明天都可以去逛一逛,随手买一辆新的(烂)车子。悲观主义者,自然很喜欢把事物都用长期来看,也和及时享乐者抱持着相反的价值观。<br />
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但一味地想象着未来邀约的某一天,久了,都忘了闻一闻花香,看一看早晨缓缓升起的朝阳,欣赏每一天的美好。<br />
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要以终为始,但不要杞人忧天;要长期思考,但不要忘却当下。<br />
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每一天,都要努力地从中享乐,品味周围自然的美好,<br />
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好音乐,美酒,好书,欢乐时光。<br />
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<br />henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-66908555822070846362017-07-25T11:12:00.005+08:002017-07-25T11:12:32.051+08:00【阅读笔记】 成功,从聚焦一件事开始<br />
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-46086758652096739052017-04-04T22:15:00.002+08:002017-04-04T22:19:00.972+08:00无求<br />
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人到无求品自高,大概就是这个道理。</div>
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<b>在慢慢长大的过程中,大家都会习惯性地想要不断地“得到”</b>,你想得到大学文凭,你想得到最新款的手机,你想得到自己的房子,你想要得到更高的薪水,你想要得到更多更多的物质和成就。你得到得越多,你就越害怕失去。</div>
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<b>没有任何东西必须拥有,</b></div>
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你不再相信广告的洗脑,你不再这么在乎他人眼中的你,你想活出你自己。</div>
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放下,不等于放弃。</div>
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人生中,总会有那么一块领域疆界,是能让你醉心于其中。在学会不断地把不重要的事物渐渐放下后,你人生中能让你发光的那一部分就会慢慢清晰。</div>
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伴随着适量的工作、适当的陪伴、偶然的放纵,和对某一个目标、某一个让你聚焦所有人生精力的领域,将会让你乐在其中。</div>
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既有求,也无求。</div>
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-31221045895920517342017-03-11T18:23:00.000+08:002017-03-11T18:23:00.984+08:00忙碌和效率<br />
曾经有一位在投资银行工作的朋友向自己分享过这么一个体验:<b>工作,不要做得太快。</b><br />
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换句话说,身为好员工,你不应该把手上的工作用最快的速度完成。否则,你注定是个普通的员工。特别当你碰到普通的上司时,这一点特别重要。<br />
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如果上司把一份工作交给你,预期你在两个小时内完成。这时你把文件资料看了一遍,发现自己大概需要一个小时就可以完成,于是你自然想要好好地表现自己,拼命在45分钟内就把这工作做完,得到上司的称赞,对吧?错,大错特错。<br />
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不明白的话,再看一看下面这个真实发生的情景。<br />
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你的工作部门有人事调动,来了一名新上司和新同事。他对工作不熟悉,不管做起什么来都不能用最快的方法,无法在最短的时间里完成。但他不耻下问,最关键的是他不抗拒加班。明明可以在正常工作时间内完成的工作,叫到他手里却要加班两小时才能完成。此外,在上班时间里,新同事由于对工作流程不理解,做事效率也低,必须要时常向其他同事请教,翻查资料,有时甚至因此忙得焦头烂额。<br />
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相反的,工作效率高的你却有时间吃早餐喝下午茶,甚至还可以在完成工作后翘脚看看报纸,不停地滑手机,同时间安排和计划其他私人事物,最大化时间效益。<br />
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换一个角度,这一幕看在上司的眼里,你和新同事比较起来,谁才是不计较为公司付出的员工?放工时间到了,你准时打卡离开办公室,而你的新同事却仍然忙碌于手上的工作,谁看起来比较忙碌?虽然完成的工作分量一样,但谁看起来比较忙碌?你不给予同事帮忙,只顾着自己准时放工,同事间又会怎么想呢?<br />
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这时如果有突发状况,有新工作临时要完成,这工作又会被分配给谁呢?甚至看在同事的眼里,你比较得空,把更多的工作派给你不是更合理的吗?<br />
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回到刚才的第一个情景,如果你平常把两个小时分量的工作,在45分钟内完成,新的工作自然而然地就会不断来到你的面前。要知道,<b>在办公室里看似得空,对上司和同事眼中可是罪恶。</b>这时,出现临时加入的工作,却要在短时间内完成,你岂不是要做到屁股都飞起来?<br />
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平时韬光养晦,紧要时刻才锋芒毕露,拯救同事上司于水火之间,一显自己超凡的工作能力。<br />
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当然,以上的情况是在平常的工作环境才会发生的。如果你遇到能辨识出忙碌和效率的差别的上司,则另当别论。<br />
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作为一个上司的话,你要明白有效率和忙碌是两个截然不同的概念。<b>甚至有些时候,是低效率才催生出了忙碌</b>。理解之后 你要懂得如何去分辨,方能知人善用。<br />
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最为一个员工,如果你没有遇到上面类型的上司,要记得把你的有效率,用“忙碌”好好地包装起来。<br />
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<b>你不想去改变世界的话,至少你可以先改变你自己。</b>henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-49903282014179524172017-02-20T22:20:00.000+08:002017-06-25T10:56:54.267+08:002017阅读书单<br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">持续更新中......</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><b>一月份</b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">1. 用12个习惯祝福自己 <span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;">褚士萤著 (购买)</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;">2. 断舍离 山下英子著 (电子书)</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;">3. 跟钱钱学理财 水湄物语著 (电子书)</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;"><b>二月份</b></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;">4. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey (借阅)</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;">5. The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg (电子书)</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;">6. 断舍离的简单生活 山下英子著 (购买)</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;">7. 三体1 (电子书)</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;">8. 三体2:黑暗森林 (电子书)</span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e2800;">9. 三体3:死神永生 (电子书)</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #4e2800; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">10. 不上班也有钱 Winnie曾琬铃著(购买)</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #4e2800; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">11. 被让现在的坏事,赶走未来的好事 艾尔文著(购买)</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #4e2800; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">12. 五分之二就够了,擦亮人生回忆的资产整理术 延金芝著(购买)</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #4e2800; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">五月份</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #4e2800; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">13. 在TOYOTA学到的只要『纸一张』的整理技术 浅田卓著 (购买)</span></span><br />
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在贫穷家庭里长大的孩子,总是比较早熟。<br />
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在父母吵架的环境下长大的孩子,难免在心中留下阴影,提早在心里做出决定。<br />
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在成长过程中遇到的磨难和挑战,跨过去之后,才成就了今天的你。<br />
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回头看,或许一切都已经那么微不足道,但当初的感觉,有时仍然能够让你情绪翻腾。<br />
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何必那么在乎呢?<br />
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因为,你真的在乎。<br />
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<br />henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-50233076377162625962017-01-14T22:21:00.001+08:002017-01-14T22:21:58.046+08:002017.1 阅读笔记 【用12个习惯祝福自己】<div class="MsoNormal">
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">上个星期,赶在大众书局关门之前,忍不住心中的欲望,从书架上取下这本书买了回家。愧疚,家里还有那许多买回来没读过或读了一半就束之高阁的书,竟然又掏钱再买书了。</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">还好,这本书轻松易读,加上这几天的一些空档时间,让自己顺利在短短几天内阅读完。趁着记忆犹新,赶紧把阅读心得给写一写。</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">【用</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">12<span lang="ZH-CN">个习惯祝福自己】一书分为三个部分,分别为:免疫力、学习力和判断力。透过对这三个能力的培养,带出</span>12<span lang="ZH-CN">习惯,依序为:</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">免疫力:好好睡觉、好好吃饭、好好运动、好好去玩</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">学习力:教会自己</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">“<span lang="ZH-CN">学习</span>”<span lang="ZH-CN">这件事、教自己</span>“<span lang="ZH-CN">安排</span>”<span lang="ZH-CN">的技巧、世界上没有永远的陌生人、给自己一颗强心脏</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">判断力:打开法国高中生的哲学课、向推理小说学习,推理自己的视野、按想的方式活,不要按活的方式想、克服过去,迎向未来</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">整体而言,书写的语言流畅且生动,穿插不少精彩的小故事(和作者的身份工作有关),设计简洁且生动,完全具备成为畅销书的条件。作为一本轻阅读,面向普通读者群的书是完全及格的。</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">这个部分涉及了三个提升你身体免疫力的部分,作者极其广泛地使用了天南地北不同国度人民的例子,说明了生活中一些基本活动,在他的观点和亲身经验后,可以如何进行改变。当中一些看法和传统做法背道而驰(好好睡觉部分),也有一些是曾被多次提及的概念(好好去玩、好好吃饭部分),但也提供了一些非常实用的应对时差的技巧奥(好好睡觉部分),以及很多人知易行难的好习惯(好好运动部分)。必须赞叹的是,作者在不同国家工作时施展的细微观察力,让他能够汇集成这四个简单却关键的好习惯。</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">对比起上一个部分鲜明地使用四个习惯推导出提升免疫力的目标,这个部分对我来说是写得相对混乱的。甚至,有些习惯的名字有些不知所云,每个习惯之间的内容虽然充满各种有趣的故事和体悟,却无法很好地形成链接。</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">照理说,这个部分的主轴应该就是如何让我们学会如何去学习(这句话的逻辑挺有趣),但却零散地插入了许多貌合神离的内容,阅读和吸收起来不太顺畅。举个例子,在“给自己一颗强心脏”的篇章里头,如何学习与达到疼痛指数</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">9<span lang="ZH-CN">相处的一个动人故事,也宣导了我们应该拥有同理心,但读完整个篇章,要怎么链接回这个习惯的标题——“给自己一颗强心脏”呢?甚至更关键的问题时,具体上应该怎么做呢?</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">嗯嗯,还是不要偏题太远。这个部分让自己获益良多的在于如何教会自己安排的技巧。作者以自身过去生活节奏繁忙而喘不过气的经验,分享了一个自己认为大家都可以在焦头烂额的生活中实践的小技巧。毕竟身边大部分的人,也包括自己,似乎都自主或被动地城市的紧凑所影响,有时真的忙的晕头转向,连自己问一问自己这么忙为了是什么的时间都没有。</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">作者自己使用了这个小技巧后,更领悟了一个大家没有意识的到事实</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">——<b><span lang="ZH-CN">一些觉得非做不可的事,其实不做也完全没有关系的</span></b><span lang="ZH-CN">。读到这里,脑海立刻想起自己曾经和朋友分享的网络上读到一篇关于极简主义的震撼故事。紧接着,跟在脑海中立刻回放了朋友给我分享的另一个道理。如果你出国旅行两个星期只需要一个行李箱便能够正常生活,为什么在日常生活的你却需要塞满整间屋子的东西才能好好生存呢?</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">你需要的,其实并不多。</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">同样的道理,作者所写出的安排生活的小技巧,虽然让他生活起了天翻地覆的差别,办事更有效率,生活中也充满了更多的乐趣,但说出来其实也平凡无比。<b>每天最多只给自己安排两件事</b>。其他的时间,就自由自在随性做自己想要的事。人一天的精力有限,当你只安排了两件要做的事,你所安排的必然是在取舍之后最重要的两件事。与此同时,你可以轻易地专注精力把这两件事的准备和实际过程,把它们做到最好。而余下的时间,你可以自由调配,跟着你的身体状况和心情做你所喜爱的事。你可以自由地睡一个午觉、看最爱看的书本、到公园森林里去散步,或者做任何你喜爱的事,无忧无虑,自由自在。</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">一个人的成就,不应该局限于学历。这句话让我留下了深刻的印象。很多时候,我们其实是被自己的思考和信念所局限了。在东方的权威式教育体制下,培养出的更多是知道我们要学习什么,却不曾思考<b>为什么我们需要学习</b>的新生代。</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">法国的教育制度里,通过每个星期八个小时的哲学课,培养法国学生一个受惠一生观念</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">——<b><span lang="ZH-CN">成为一个会思考的人,而不是一个会背诵正确答案的人</span></b><span lang="ZH-CN">。如果你读完了这篇文章后,什么也不记得,只要记得这一句,也就够了。</span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;">我不是反对大家的价值观和生活方式,只是看到太多的人,只是跟随着家人社会的规范,盲目地走大家走过的路,追求短暂的快乐和欲望的满足。如果这是大家经过思考后决定这么生活,那没问题。但,你现在所过的生活,真的是你想要的最好的生活吗?你有想过,如何生活得更好吗?</span><span style="font-family: KaiTi; line-height: 107%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-74876881316771123462017-01-13T15:10:00.000+08:002017-01-13T15:10:53.681+08:002016年回顾<div class="MsoNormal">
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-39816113773669497952016-08-02T16:47:00.000+08:002016-08-02T16:47:00.861+08:00坚持下去的理由<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-67504704374776792132016-07-26T18:15:00.000+08:002016-07-26T18:19:11.224+08:00我的外婆<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Be a contrarian.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Rothschilds : When the street of Paris are
running with blood, I buy.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">On panics : You should have – in every case –
been a buyer of stocks, not a seller.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">The stock market, at its extremes, is never
rational.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Fear and greed rule the market.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">You can get rich, if you own enough stock and the
stock goes up over many years, if , you concentrate and don’t diversify.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Buy a few shares and, preferably in weak stock
markets, buy a few more shares. Keep buying, perhaps over years, reinvest
dividends in more stock.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Debt can be a killer.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">All life is relationship.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">The best measure of character is how you come
back from the bumps in the road that life deals to all of us.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">We all need stories.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">If you schedule a meeting to last an hour,
finish it fifteen minutes early.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">You will never really know yourselves until
you put your real money on the line.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Trees do not grow to the skies. Everything
fluctuates.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">See the world through ironic glasses, and
always search for ways to separate yourself from the crowd.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Truth about people: Most of us cannot resist
tales of our childhood.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Force yourself to be curious.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Loyalty changes in the blink of an eye.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">About career: YOU NEVER KNOW.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Fear always replaces greed and vice versa. The
good eventually replaces the bad, and vice versa.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Cycles can be your friend, play them to your
advantage.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">The big money in life, whether it’s in stocks
or real estate, or stamps or coins or paintings, is made long term.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Every day for the rest of your lives, the news
is going to be terrible.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Let travel becomes a magical mystery tour,
have your eyes out on sticks.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Law of business life: Be prepared for the
unexpected.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">In human interaction, the most important
quality is a sense of humor.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">If you can tell a joke, you’ll always sell
more tomatoes than anyone else.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Don’t be pain in the butt around the house.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">All in life is negotiable.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">I believe in betting on people, not concepts.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Trust, but verify.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">You can never be a great novelist until you’ve
experienced grief. And loss.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">About friendship: You have to work at it, you
have to stay in touch.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">If you’re energized, you can handle almost
everything.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Call your Ritter before your bathroom drain
clogs, before your pipe burst, before your hot water heater explodes.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Fads last about two years.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">I’d rather go to Vegas than trade commodities.
At least in Vegas you can see a show.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Always be a surprise. They’ll remember you.
And someone’s always going to blink.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Scared money never wins.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Stand up for yourselves.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Don’t talk about what you want to do, do it.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Do what you say you’re going to do.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Word of mouth, can be best sales technique.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">Take real vacation. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">I sucked the lemon dry.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; text-indent: -0.5in;">
<span style="font-size: 11.5pt; mso-bidi-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H; mso-fareast-font-family: TT491A9C96tCID-WinCharSetFFFF-H;">You never know anyone until you deal with
their money.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-25825698417323317402016-07-17T23:00:00.000+08:002016-07-17T23:00:37.913+08:00沙发理财课【二】<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-34707936833479513612016-07-14T17:02:00.000+08:002016-07-14T17:02:08.376+08:00与蠢人共事的4个好处<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-53215753567455447252016-07-13T18:00:00.000+08:002016-07-13T18:00:13.991+08:00面试时最关键的问题 <div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt;">
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henghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11914430218480617770noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6870302135351451402.post-88315035102291885432016-07-12T17:00:00.000+08:002016-07-12T17:00:24.536+08:0030天挑战<br />
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